Dealing with an ex girlfriend can end up being a pretty tricky situation. On the one hand, you know that you kind of do want her back and on the other hand, you have to admit that the idea of being free to date again also seems to have its luster. You might be feeling torn apart because you feel this way and you might also feel confused about what you should do. Is it okay to date again and still have a part of you feel like you want her back?
Short answer: Yes.
You are human. You are a guy. We are who we are and we want what we want. So, of course you are going to have that part of that is actually a little bit excited about the idea of being able to date again even if you still feel like you want her back in your life. The fact is, it’s usually not going to be one of those deal breakers as far as her coming back to you, if you happen to date casually after breaking up.
She might even do the same.
There are some women that are probably going to have a problem with the idea of an ex boyfriend wanting them back and still dating someone casually, but you know what? Those are usually the same kind of women that you don’t really want to be in a relationship with… unless you like the idea of pulling your hair out in frustration.
REBOUNDING IS FINE… JUST DON’T GO ALL IN -
The only real thing that you have to watch out for if you are going to date again while at the same time you want your ex girlfriend back is moving too fast with whomever you are rebounding with. Your ex girlfriend might find it a little weird if you have moved in with a new woman just weeks after the break up, especially if you are also trying to win her back at the same time.
That is really the only thing that you have to watch out for in most situations. Typically, you’ll find that it actually proves to be a good thing if you can move on and show your ex girlfriend that you can date again. You might even find that your ex seems to become a little bit more interested in you when she finds out that another woman has entered into the picture.